It’s pretty normal to prefer not to have anal sex and still engage in safe, fulfilling sexual interactions. We also deserve evidence-based, medically accurate, LGBTQ-inclusive sexuality education. We all deserve sex that makes us feel good.
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Free to express your feelings, desires, and pleasures on your terms. Nevertheless, when engaging in any type of sex, you should be reminded that you are free. Individuals that prefer to be the receptive anal sex partner (bottom) or those that choose to not engage in penetrative anal sex are sometimes ridiculed and judged for knowing what they want. Due to stigma, sex between two cisgender gay men sometimes reverts back to the same guilt that we experienced in class. There was no mention of pleasure, and peers and I would leave most lectures feeling devastated and sometimes guilty. My sex education classes focused on the fact that sex should occur after marriage and only for the purpose of reproduction. These include shame around sexual pleasure, power dynamics, the pressure to “properly prepare,” and the fact that it can sometimes be physically painful. In addition, penetrative anal sex can be a lot of work! There are many reasons why people may not prefer it during every sexual encounter. It may take some time to develop intimacy and trust with someone - and that is ok. Different people’s level of intimacy may change from person to person depending on how close they feel to them. People can recognize a few signs of trust when their boundaries are respected, compassion is exhibited, and they don’t feel shame when disclosing sensitive information about their sexual health. It is important to note that the study was focused primarily on a single sexual event - the most recent.īefore engaging in penetrative anal sex, some cisgender gay men require a certain level of intimacy and trust. The most commonly reported behavior was kissing a partner on the mouth. For instance, study participants that identified as gay reported 1,308 unique combinations of sexual behaviors. Well, the truth is, each individual, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity, has different sexual preferences, behaviors, and experiences. You might have read that statistic and thought, ”How is that possible?”
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Fortunately, recent research proves what I was trying to illustrate so long ago - that penetrative anal sex only occurs in about a third of sexual encounters between cisgender gay men. I was only able to do so much to expand their views about gay sex, especially in a climate where the lives and experiences of LGBTQ people are still stigmatized and where six states have laws that expressly forbid teachers from discussing LGBTQ issues.
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It was only until I had had enough of butt jokes from cisgender straight friends that I realized that they thought of relationships cisgender gay men only have penetrative anal sex. I found that sex included consent, trust, kissing, masturbation, oral intercourse, and more.
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Coming into my identity as a cisgender black gay young man, I used the internet to increase my understanding of sex and healthy relationships. Growing up, the sex education lessons that I received in school were exclusive of LGBTQ people and solely focused on intercourse between a cisgender straight man and woman.